What if I told you that 1,300 new stepfamilies form EVERY DAY in the United States alone and that statistically, 67% of them will fail?
Peaceful Stepfamilies Are No Coincidence
What’s Your Current Stepfamily Season? Take the 60-Second Online Assessment & Get Your Custom Roadmap to a Thriving Home.
Did you know that 67% of second and 75% of third marriages will fail?
1,300 new stepfamilies form every day in the U.S. alone.
67 percent of them will fail.
And not because they don’t love each other.
Not because they aren’t trying. Most stepfamilies fall apart because no one ever taught them how to create stability in a structure that wasn’t designed to function like a traditional family. Most people cross their fingers, hoping they’ll just “figure it out” in time…Until:
The stress creeps in.
Resentment starts corroding what was supposed to be a once-in-a-lifetime love.
The home that was meant to be your sanctuary starts feeling like a battleground.
If you’ve ever thought, “I love my family, so why does it feel this hard?”—you’re not alone.
The good news? Stepfamily stability isn’t luck. It’s science. And you can learn exactly what’s needed to create it.
Stepfamily Life Isn’t Just ‘Normal Family Life With Extra People.’
Did anyone ever tell you that stepfamily relationships follow a completely different set of rules?
If not, it’s no wonder you’re struggling.
Stepfamily life isn’t just a slightly more complicated version of a traditional family.
it’s an entirely different ecosystem—one with unique power dynamics, pressures, and attachment bonds.
✔ Are you living in a home where you’re affected by decisions you didn’t get to make?
✔ Do you feel like an outsider in your own family, never quite sure where you fit?
✔ Are you walking a tightrope between being
These aren’t personal failures. They are predictable challenges that require an entirely different approach.
Transformation Path
Stepfamilies don’t follow a timeline—they follow developmental seasons. The difference between the 67% who dissolve (or stay together miserably) versus the chosen few who thrive? It’s not luck. It’s not a coincidence. Nobody put a hex on you.
The thriving ones understand their season and adjust accordingly
✅ If you feel constantly triggered, exhausted, or like you’re walking on eggshells…
✅ If it feels like your stepfamily is never quite “settling in” the way you imagined…
✅ If the stress is building and you don’t know how to stop it…
Then this assessment is your next step.
In Just 60- Seconds, You’ll Get:
To know where you are in the process.
Influence, and stability at home.
Family governance, and stepfamily leadership.
What Happens When a Stepfamily Falls Apart?
When stepfamilies collapse, it’s not just another breakup.
✔Did you know that children who experience multiple family separations have higher rates of anxiety, depression, and relational difficulties later in life?
✔Did you know that financial instability is one of the leading stressors in second and third marriages?
✔Did you know that unresolved co-parenting conflicts can cause stress levels equivalent to high-conflict litigation, even years after divorce?
The fallout isn’t just emotional. It’s systemic.
✔ Another home lost. Children who already had to rebuild after one separation now have to do it again.
✔ Another fracture in the foundation. Co-parents who were just starting to find common ground are thrown back into instability.
✔ Another cycle of stress and burnout. Families carry unresolved grief, emotional exhaustion, and the deep weight of "trying again" for years.
But here’s what most people don’t realize: Breakdown isn’t inevitable. Stepfamilies who understand their developmental stage and adjust accordingly can not only survive—they can thrive.
BECAUSE NO ONE GAVE YOU THE ROADMAP FOR STEPFAMILY PEACE
So let’s build it together.
WHOLE Stepfamily™ – Where Stepfamilies Become Unbreakable.
The most stable, peaceful, and connected stepfamilies aren’t the ones with the least problems. They’re the ones who:
✅Stop guessing and start leading.
✅Recognize that love alone isn’t enough—structure and strategy create security.
✅Understand that their family isn’t broken—they just need the right tools.
Where you are right now is temporary...But the choices you make next?
They determine whether your home becomes a sanctuary or another battleground.
Take the First Step Toward a Thriving Stepfamily.
Testimonials
“Before my wife started working with Brittny Lynch through The Whole Step Family, she struggled to find her role in our new blended family. She faced challenges with jealousy, uncertainty about how to parent (since she didn’t have children of her own), and feeling unsure of where she fit.After going through the program, Ive seen a complete transformation. Shes become more patient, understanding, and present not just with me but with our entire family. Shes also learned to set healthy boundaries and has truly found her place in our blended family.This program has been a game-changer, and Im so grateful for the positive impact its had on our relationship and home life. If you’re navigating the challenges of a stepfamily, I highly recommend The Whole Step Family and Brittany Lynch's guidance.”
-Luke M Bio Dad (Toronto, Canada)
"One day, in the middle of a crisis, I turned to Google and searched “Stepmom,” hoping for something—anything—that could help. I came across an online coach who handed me “trigger” worksheets, asking me to write down my feelings whenever something difficult came up in my stepfamily. Needless to say, that didn’t help. But what did
help was one simple piece of advice she gave me:
"Listen to The WHOLE Stepfamily podcast by Brittany Lynch."
That moment changed everything and I immediately got in touch to discover more. What I’ve learned since meeting Brittany has been truly life changing. The insights, the skills, the deep-rooted understanding of why conflict arises and how to navigate it—these are not just strategies for stepfamily life. These are tools you can take anywhere, anytime, and position yourself to succeed. There’s no one I wouldn’t recommend Brittany’s work to. It’s a game-changer in the deepest, most undeniable way."
—Lisa H, Stepmom (Alaska, USA)
"Working with Brittany completely changed my stepfamily life. I’d tried books, I’d tried magazines, I’d tried forums. I had even tried finding a therapist on one of those websites, boy, was that an immediate disaster. Through avenues of searching, I found her webpage, and one look told me: this is who and what I want to be. I was so grateful she had space to work with me. The way I understood my stepchildren completely changed after some pivotal educational moments about children, and that shift alone was a huge win for our relationships and my sanity. Working with her, I was able to understand myself and observe myself in such a deep way, that, in real-time, knee jerk reactions could transform instead to some of the most meaningful and significant interactions with my step kids that I have had. Every stepfamily is different, and I think I was blessed with a pretty easy pair of step kids. But a ton of that “luck” was created by me by consciously and consistently working on myself with the Britany’s guidance. At my last birthday dinner, as we approached my step daughter’s high school graduation, I received the most heartfelt card from her. Success in the area of stepmotherhood is difficult to measure, and is different for every family, but if it can be measured, I think that card was a grade of an A+. At that dinner, I also received a really wonderful card from my stepson. I am so proud of the relationships and memories I have created with my step kids. This is always an ongoing project, and I continue to experiment with how I choose to present myself and how our relationships will evolve as we all change through the years. There is always something new to navigate, and I’m so thankful I have Brittany and a community to help me through when things get tough or I need an enlightenment boost!"
-Anne G, Stepmom (Colorado, USA)
What This Assessment Will Give You:
✅ A Personalized Stepfamily Season Diagnosis – Know exactly where you are in the developmental process.
✅ A Custom Roadmap – Get expert-recommended solutions based on real data, not trial and error.
✅Fastest Route to Stability – Stop spinning your wheels and start engineering lasting stepfamily peace.
Stepfamily life doesn’t have to be a cycle of stress, resentment, and conflict.
Let’s build something better, together.
