The Vanity Room

RN, BScN, Certified Stepfamily Counselor, Trauma Informed Specialist, Kundalini Practitioner, Founder of Forever After Coaching & Consulting Co., Stepqueen, The Whole Stepfamily & The Queen of Your Castle Podcast

Brittany Lynch is not just a stepfamily educator—she’s a systems disruptor, a nervous system specialist, and a trauma-informed coach who has helped thousands of stepmoms and co-parents worldwide rebuild their homes, their relationships, and their sense of self.

With a background in neurology, psychiatry, and somatic stress recovery, Brittany bridges the clinical with the spiritual, the practical with the deeply personal.

She became a stepmom nearly a decade ago, and like many women, entered it full of hope—and quickly found herself overwhelmed, invisible, and unsupported. When traditional advice failed, she committed to building what didn’t yet exist.

Now, Brittany teaches women how to:

Regulate their nervous systems without abandoning their truth

Repair broken power dynamics in their homes without conflict

Build boundaries that actually hold

Reclaim their worth, time, energy, and role

And feel grounded, centered, and respected again

Her work is rooted in mindfulness, emotional intelligence, family governance, nervous system repair, and embodied leadership. She doesn't offer band-aids—she offers frameworks that hold, and community that heals.

What You Get with Peace Love Stepmom: Signature Series

When you enroll, you’re not just joining a program—you’re stepping into a complete support ecosystem designed to hold, guide, and transform every part of your stepmom experience.

The Core Program: Peace Love Stepmom

This is the heart of the entire experience—and the exact coaching curriculum that’s changed the lives of thousands of stepmoms around the world.

Peace Love Stepmom is a comprehensive, guided transformation for women who feel exhausted, disconnected, emotionally fried, or invisible in their own homes—and want a clear, structured path back to regulation, connection, and confidence.

It’s not a parenting course.
It’s not about how to handle your partner’s ex or fix your stepkids.
It’s about repairing the foundation that everything else is built on: you.

Inside the Core Curriculum, You'll Learn How To:

Stop walking on eggshells and start creating safety—for yourself first

Regulate your nervous system before, during, and after stepfamily stress

Rebuild your identity when you’ve lost touch with who you are in the chaos

Create clear, uncrossable boundaries that actually hold

Communicate without defensiveness, even in high-conflict environments

Reestablish intimacy with your partner—even when resentment is in the room

Untangle your role from your worth and stop performing for approval

Build structure in your family life that makes everyone feel more secure—including you

Shift emotional power dynamics so you’re no longer managing everything silently

How It’s Delivered:

- Multi-layered teaching curriculum built from Brittany’s nervous-system informed, evidence-backed methodology

- 127 lessons and modules, including coaching replays, training sessions, and step-by-step exercises

- Real-world scenarios, troubleshooting guides, and tools for everyday stepmom life

- Private off-social community to ask questions, share breakthroughs, and get support with other stepfamilies

- Group Coaching Program

- Ongoing support through our private online space; Coaches are just a post away

When you join the Peace Love Stepmom Signature Series, you don’t just get a curriculum—you get community, coaching, and high-touch support from a team that actually gets it.

Your membership includes:

- Regular live coaching calls with Brittany + The Whole Stepfamily team and guest faculty

- Access to a stepmoms-only community, designed to be safe, non-toxic, and deeply validating

- Ongoing feedback, personalized support, and guidance from Brittany, Sarah and The Whole Stepfamily team

This is where personal growth meets real-time, real-life implementation—so you’re never doing this alone.

This program is where women come when they’re ready to stop “getting through it” and start building something they actually want to live inside of.

You’ll feel the shift in your body.
You’ll hear it in your voice.
You’ll see it in your home.

Bonus: The Curriculum Closet You’ve Always Wished Existed

You’re not just getting the core coaching program.

When you join Peace Love Stepmom: Signature Series, you’re also unlocking Brittany’s complete workshop and coaching vault—the entire transformational toolbox she’s built over years of private work, clinical practice, and lived stepfamily experience.

This bonus library is designed to meet you in real time with practical, healing-forward solutions for every layer of your journey.

Your Complete Bonus Vault Includes:

→ 5 STEPS to Peace & Love

A practical, emotionally intelligent framework for navigating stepfamily dynamics—without collapsing your boundaries or over-functioning your way to burnout.

→ 7-Day Stepfamily Stress Detox

A daily nervous system reset for stepmoms who need quick, evidence-based tools to feel less reactive and more grounded—starting today.

→ Blended Family Blueprint

If you've ever wondered “What exactly is my role here?”—this is where you find the answer. Build your stepfamily from a place of clarity, structure, and security.

→ Emotional Regulation in 90 Seconds

Learn the tools Brittany teaches her private clients to shift from fight/flight/freeze into grounded presence—even when you're mid-trigger.

→ Fostering Tween & Teen Relationships

How to build connection with older stepkids—especially when the relationship feels strained, awkward, or tense.

→ Healing from Your Partner’s Past

Let go of the emotional residue from “the before.” Move past comparison, resentment, and the feeling of being second, so you can live in the present.

→ The Ultimate Boundaries Blueprint

Boundaries that don’t break under pressure. Learn to communicate limits clearly, hold your ground, and honor your nervous system in the process.

→ Your Busy Story

Unlearn the internal pattern of over-functioning and performative peacekeeping. Make space for your actual needs—without guilt.

→ Your Money Story

Rework your relationship with money, value, and shared household resources—especially in blended financial dynamics.

→ Meditations for Stepmoms

Guided audio meditations to regulate your nervous system, soothe internal chaos, and return to calm—anytime you need it.

Tens of thousands of dollars worth of support, strategy, and training—all included when you join Peace Love Stepmom: Signature Series today.